Not a long story here. I (F32) was changing our baby’s diaper when my husband (M37) snuck up behind me and pulled my pants down (just the pants, not the underwear - he wanted me to include this part). He did it to make me laugh.

I elbowed him and yelled at him. (I apologized for elbowing him, it was just a reaction). I asked him to never do it again and now he won’t agree and keeps laughing. He says I’m overreacting but I’m really just asking him not to do again and I’m worried he’s going to do it all the time now.

He says he’ll stop if the internet agrees with me but he is confident you will all think he’s hilarious.

I really don’t want to deal with this anymore. Please just say “it’s funny once but not again”.

Update:. You guys really need to chill lol. I’m not going to divorce my husband because he made a joke that didn’t land. That’s not how marriage works.

In an ironic twist I have decided we are now a pantsing house. I will pants him as often as humanly possible and I will be wearing dresses to make myself invincible. Thanks for the terrible advice (although I do agree that no means no, I just don’t think it’s that’s deep here.)

My husband is a really good guy and is genuinely hilarious making the whole family laugh, so I’m going to let him do his thing.

I went out to dinner last night with my wife and spent $125 on two steak dinners and a couple of beers.

All of the food was shit. The steaks were thin overcooked things that had no reason to cost $40. It looked like something that would be served in a cafeteria. We both agreed afterward that we would have had more fun going to a nearby bar and just buying chicken fingers.

I've had this experience a lot lately when we find time to get out for a date night. Spending good money on dinners almost never feels worth it. I don't know if the quality of the food has changed, or if my perception of it has. Most of the time feel I could have made something better at home. Over the years I've cooked almost daily, so maybe I'm better at cooking than I used to be?

I'm slowly starting to have the realization that spending more on a night out, never correlates to having a better time. Fun is had by sharing experiences, and many of those can be had for cheap.

Coming off two game disasters with Andromeda and Anthem and following a terrible marvel-tier trailer, Dragon Age fans are 100% justified in being dissatisfied.

I had all but gave up on Dragon Age hearing the production disaster rumors on this game. I found myself actually very excited finally getting a trailer and gameplay showcase, highlighting how much I love this franchise and can't let it go.

That trailer represented everything I was afraid this game will be. I'm glad we got a bit back on track with the gameplay showcase, but I'm also very glad Bioware his getting the negative feedback they are.

It's great that the community is signaling their dissatisfaction. It's basically the only chance we have at avoiding more disasters. I want to spend more time in this world. I want these game to be GOOD.

They have had twice the time and resources to make this game than any other Dragon Age game. We should expect quality.

I found out after she died when her best friend kissed me and asked me to marry her. Then she trauma dumped the truth that my wife was cheating with multiple partners for at least 12 years.

I have three teenage daughters, I’m a single dad now, and my marriage was a lie.

Maybe you want details, maybe you want to know how I cope. AMA